How to Support and Understand Toddlers' Behavior

What is the usual behavior of a two-year-old toddler who clings to her teacher when her mother comes to pick her up?

A: The toddler's home life is lacking in some important way.

B: The toddler is unhappy that her mother left her at all.

C: The toddler prefers the center to her own home.

D: The toddler prefers the teacher to her mother.

Answer:

B: The toddler is unhappy that her mother left her at all.

Understanding and supporting toddlers' behavior can be challenging but essential for their emotional development. When a two-year-old toddler clings to her teacher when her mother comes to pick her up, it usually means that the toddler is feeling upset or anxious about her mother leaving.

At this age, toddlers are still developing a sense of security and attachments to their primary caregivers. The sudden separation from their mother can trigger feelings of insecurity and distress, leading the toddler to seek comfort from someone familiar like their teacher.

As adults, it is important to acknowledge and validate the toddler's feelings of sadness or anxiety. Reassure the toddler that her mother will return and provide comfort and support during the transition. Building a trusting and secure relationship with the toddler can help her feel more secure and confident in handling separations in the future.

It is also essential to communicate with the parent to understand any underlying issues that may be causing the toddler's distress. By working together with the parent and providing a nurturing and supportive environment, we can help toddlers navigate their emotions and build resilience.